I tend to suspect your husband is feeling guilty for having abandoning his mother and trying to make up by finding someone to keep her company. Some are sly and sneaky that will quietly sabotage you behind your back. I told him, no, but I want him to agree that she hurt my feelings and that agree that she should have kept her mouth shut. I agree maybe they work in an environment that allows them to be thi close, who knows. Out performing them is the best revenge! He made the mistake of venting to her about me and telling her that I hated her and thought something was going on. My recent post My husband for 5 long years had an assistant that I didn't know about who he took out to lunch, lent money to and hung out at the office with. In my opinion, the men are more to blame because they are the ones who took the vows.
I think you handled the situation perfectly. I have to be honest with you, but what you write in your post seems like you easily overreact and maybe some of the things you describe that you are observing are tainted by your emotions. But both sides need to be very honest and open. I am sending you clarity. Would all that weirdness still would have happened.
However, this issue is non-negotiable! Eat it up jealous chicks. About another year later, I found out that they were both discussing each others marriage problems. Sometimes the guy pre-empts it and does it first, but it is so weird. What if they continue to talk behind your back? How dare any man I a relationship work closely with another female? I want to feel like I am his best friend. I had to close my eyes, because the rational part of me knew that there was nothing going on that I needed to be jealous about. The above post was adapted from a chapter in my marriage book,. Using questionnaires given to 200 workers, scientists analysed intrasexual rivalry, choosing 114 people to further complete the study.
After the third pub event of her ignoring me and prancing round him like a preening idiot, I spoke to him about it. He came to faith in prophetkalito during this time, even when I tried to give up, prophetkalito always brought me back. I did not say anything but after that incident he told me that there's no reason for me not to like her and she was never disrectful to me,and i am just exaggerating everything i said. Look how mean they are to you, do you really want to hang out and associate yourself with this type of group? I am your husband in this situation. I get angry when I see two attractive people together.
But at the end of the day, no matter how wonderful your female colleagues may be, none of those women are your wife, nor should they be treated as such. Be brutally honest: Are you open and emotionally vulnerable with one another, or do you use criticism and anger in resolving your issues? It sounds like you were dealing with a bunch of self-entitled babies. Like you I do not understand why there is a need to be so friendly with the female coworkers and vent or rant to them about things. When I got into high school, things got better…lol boys started to notice me and my girl friends became jelly. He says that he's not taping me anymore, but who knows. So, your extreme anger feels out of place. On the other hand, if your husband does have good friends in his life, I would wonder why this particular relationship is so important that he is willing to hurt your feelings to continue it.
Or, you can relish in the attention… pose your feet cutely and tell her the brand of your shoes or something. I spotted this girl a mile away and warned my hubby, he said I don't know here she works up front I don't need to talk to her. Then on top of that, he hasn't worn his wedding ring in a few days. I love you and I want you but I don't need you. She dorsnot have any onecin her life. When I politely explained that I would be talking on the phone to my lovely wife and our eight kids, she dropped her arms in stunned surprise and quickly moved on in search of a more receptive companion.
So maybe it would help if you make him feel funny and make him feel attractive. You need to talk with a therapist about why you would go off the deep end over a woman who works with your husband and start cyber stalking her and comparing her to you etc. I think it is clear that neither men nor women are blameless in this. So this has nothing to do with him except I'm crazy, I think. I feel like he is just constantly irritated with me now. Three of them are ex-girlfriends.
There's such a thing as emotional adultery, but there is also such a thing as a platonic friendship. My advice is to be honest with yourself and your spouse or significant other about what you want; sooner rather than later. Here are my thoughts: let me get biblical first : The scripture says that when men marry, they are to leave their parents and cleave to their wife. And a girl like that doesn't say single for long. We lived in the same apartment building and she used to catch the bus to work. She is emotionally dependent on my man. How horrible that she bragged about it before it even occurred.
I just wanted to thank the spell caster i ment online for the great help and efforts with my situation with Chris. Then write it down clearly and then speak honestly with your husband. Adding insult to injury he even kissed her on the cheek he claims he kisses everyone. Your husband sounds like a friendly person who is totally oblivious to how this affects you. Sounds like you work with a bunch of bitches. Dear Thelma, I have been married for 16 years.
I have told him she has 3 more months before I go postal on her. Now granted my husband and I have been together since the age of fourteen almost ten years ago. You guys need to move! Being beautiful brings out the ugly side of human nature? Then would I be happy and secure in my relationship? But how you behave toward other women is only half the equation, and the more straightforward half, at that. Compliment them on their purse or anything you like. She likely just idolizes your husband for his skills. Looking me up and down, watching my every move, lying on me to the boss.