She said yes and we both agreed a day and she said she looked forward to it. You will find yourself involved in an endless dance with her in which you are not only getting your feet trodden on but your whole being will eventually be crushed. At the other end, there is the weaker, more messed-up victim type of flake — with a variety of shades in between. You're the one who's turning them into a bitch. I really want to tell her off, but I'm holding back right now. A Woman May Flake Because She Has Other Options Modern women these days have many options and an abundance of access to a plethora of other men these days via dating apps, social media, their jobs or even at their coffee shop or local bar. But when it does happen, how should a guy respond? A classic inconsistency is that they can be in the middle of a lengthy, apparently pleasant text or chat conversation and they will suddenly disappear and not return.
She started simply showing up and telling Kristie they were hanging out. Suddenly no response — we might have a flake. At one end, there is the ruthless, more vituperative flake. One guy I know, after observing his girlfriend almost continually texting on her phone when they went out together, discovered she had been writing to at least one other guy all the same intimate things she had been saying to him at almost the same time. And possibly agree to go on a date with you, then flake again. I wrote that some girls flake on you just because they don't like you, but also that other girls flake on you because they like to get guys' numbers and then reject them because they are bitches and yes there are girls that enjoy rejecting guys for the fuck of it and yes they are bitches. He could just be busy.
The Flaky Chick is Essentially a Narcissist A flaky chick is essentially a female Narcissist on steroids. She texts me back at 11:00 telling me she's on her way. Work out, do your job as best you can, plan for the future, eat good, and then have a nice chat with a girl. Most people especially women think — or, rather, prefer to believe, or even perpetuate the idea — that domestic abuse is almost wholly from men towards women. Why Flacky Chicks Love Social Media Social media, such as Facebook and Twitter, provide the perfect platform for flaky chicks to excel as narcissists, where they can obtain constant confirmation of their imagined wonderfulness. Are you withdrawing from weekly get-togethers with your bestie to prioritize something else, like work or a dude? In short, the flaky chick, unless her flakiness is somehow miraculously resolved, can never enjoy a fulfilling relationship, no matter with whom it is forged and no matter which type of flaky chick she is.
She texts me back at It wasn't even a date; she was the sister of a girl I tried to go out with but rejected me, but me and the sister were cool with each other and became okay casual acquaintances with. This behaviour is the complete antithesis of womanhood, for a true feminine trait is empathy and an understanding of the experience of the other. However, no matter how much compassion you may feel for her, no matter how much you may think you understand her or can help her, the flaky chick is a law unto herself and she will never let you get near enough to help her. Likewise, you can be a huge loser but if you treat a girl indifferently she will think you are some interesting, busy guy. I went on other dates in the meantime. He has increasingly withdrawn from the world after a lifetime of watching it entropize into the debacle that it is today — especially in the realm of man-woman relations. Flaky chicks truly are masters or should that be mistresses of turning things back onto the one who observes their antisocial and destructive traits.
Did you read my post? She is often intelligent, attractive, creative and engaging and manages to seduce many people into being friends with her and admiring her. Or are you asking to do something she has never done before? When you bring together that acute terror of abandonment or rejection with the narcissistic elements of being unable to withstand even a hint of criticism and an obsessive horror of being put down or having the narcissistic bubble burst, you can begin to understand the desperate interior pathology of the flaky chick, disguised behind her often cool and engaging exterior. Not every girl will fuck any guy. Flaky chicks will look right past such Alpha males. Scenario 2: you call a girl you met the other day and she doesn't answer and it's been a couple days, what do you do? At least have a backup plan in case the unexpected happen. Maybe they have a demanding job.
Flaky Chicks are Always Taking Offense at Nothing of Importance Flaky chicks are always ready to take offense or feel slighted by even the most casual remark which they perceive as being hostile to them. Have you ever dealt with a flaky friend? It's long, but interesting manual. The key is to set definite dates from the get-go. When you realize that it comes with the territory and accept it for what it is, then you will be much happier. But if a man becomes intimate with her, after the relationship is well underway he will begin to notice little things which ring his alarm bells. Notice how her test of character worked way better than his and in the end, he made the decision for her by acting out.
Playing hard to get is for childish people. But he felt sorry for her as she had three small children and was on her own and always seemed to be going through one hassle or another. Too much thinking, planning, etc… And it usually only leads to more game playing. Just imagine what he is like as a boyfriend! In some sense, it is a game, with rules. Her whole world is concentrated on keeping these two elements out of her life. I don't text girls for weeks then build up the courage to ask them out that's just a big no! If you keep at it after more than 2 strikes you are wasting your time with a woman that isn't attracted in you as a lover.
Newscasters would feel obliged to wear one onscreen. If you don't want to play games, don't play games. It doesn't matter how hot the person is. But if we think of rape merely in its physical aspect, then we are failing to understand the meaning of violation. Flaky Chicks are Insecure, have Low Self-Esteem and Self-Loathing Due to their insecurity, low self-esteem and disguised self-loathing, flaky chicks often have an alcohol or drug problem and are likely to be heavy smokers. Sounds to me like maybe she changed her mind? Here is a recent example. If you're to the point where you've gotten angry, then you've allowed yourself to become too invested.
Neither of those options make good relationship material. It wasn't even a date; she was the sister of a girl I tried to go out with but rejected me, but me and the sister were cool with each other and became okay casual acquaintances with. Over time, emotional baggage might start weighing down your. Nobody can affect my plans. The same is true of Borderline Personality Disorder, where it is officially recognised that about 75% of sufferers are women. Walk away and preserve your integrity.